Dear Married BROTHERS,
Many Married Men neglect the emotional side of marriage, leaving their wives feeling UNSEEN and UNHEARD.
But did you know that our beloved PROPHET MUHAMMAD ﷺ set the perfect example of love, care, and emotional connection? 🌹
💡 Science proves that emotional neglect can weaken a marriage – women need emotional security just as much as physical love.
Here’s how to strengthen your bond today:-
💖 Comfort her in difficult times
When Safiyyah (RA) felt upset, the PROPHET MUHAMMAD ﷺ wiped her tears and reassured her. He didn’t dismiss her feelings or tell her to “just get over it.” Instead, he listened, validated her emotions, and comforted her.
👉 Your wife needs your emotional presence, not just financial support.
💖 Listen deeply and pay attention to her emotions
The PROPHET ﷺ could tell when Aisha (RA) was pleased or upset just by looking at her. He didn’t wait for her to express her pain – he noticed it and responded with love.
👉 When your wife shares her feelings, don’t interrupt, dismiss, or “fix” the problem immediately. Just listen & be present.
💖 Spend quality time together without distractions
The PROPHET ﷺ raced with Aisha (RA), showing that love isn’t just about duties – it’s about creating joyful, intimate moments together.
👉 Put your phone away. Give her undivided attention.
💖 Show love through small, thoughtful actions
The PROPHET ﷺ ate with his wives, drank from the same spot on a cup, and showered them with kindness.
👉 A simple compliment, a thoughtful gift, or a gentle touch can make your wife feel cherished and loved every single day.
💖 Help her around the house
The PROPHET MUHAMMAD ﷺ would regularly assist with housework (Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī, 676, 5363, 6039)
👉 Acts of service are a love language – helping her out makes her feel valued and supported.
💖 Live with her in kindness and equity
ALLAH SWT commands:
“Live with them on a footing of kindness and equity” (An-Nisa:19).
👉 This means treating her with respect, patience, and love – especially in moments of disagreement.
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