Dear Muslim Couples,
Let’s talk about one of the most overlooked emotional gaps in marriage…
What happens after intimacy.
Many sisters feel hurt when their husbands immediately fall asleep, grab their phone or move away right after being so close, not because they don’t understand, but because they feel abandoned in a moment that meant everything to them.
Yes, brothers, it’s natural for you to feel sleepy after intimacy.
There’s a chemical reason for it.
But it doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try.
Just a few minutes of closeness can make her feel emotionally safe, seen & deeply loved.
Here’s why this moment matters so much:
❤️ After intimacy, both of you are in your most vulnerable emotional state.
❤️ This is the moment ALLAH TAA’LA has blessed you with love and connection that has made halal for you, don’t waste it.
❤️ Just turning toward her, holding her hand, whispering “I love you,” or simply listening… can heal silent wounds.
❤️ Sisters thrive on emotional security, and this moment is an open door to give it.
This isn’t just about physical intimacy, this is about spiritual bonding.
As the Prophet ﷺ said:
“The best of you is the best to his wives, and I am the best of you to my wives…”
[Tirmidhi 3895]
So dear BROTHERS, next time, don’t roll away. Roll toward her.
Hold her. Speak to her. Make du’a together. Let her feel your presence even after passion.
These are the tiny moments that build lifelong love and barakah in marriage.
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Let’s build marriages rooted in RAHMAH, not routine.
“She doesn’t just want your body, she wants your heart.”
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